Did you know?

God wants you to have 

awesome friendships and 

romantic relationships that 

build you, not break you.

Dr. Chuck and Betsy Stokes

We are two flawed people with our own messy histories and plenty of potential for failed relationships. But we're doing great and enjoying each other and our family and friends, because people who care about us taught us important skills based on timeless principles. Our cred: We are certified by the Center for Relational Care in relationship mentoring. Chuck studies the topic as a sociologist at Samford University.

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What We Teach

Relational Health

We know the advice for bodily health: exercise, eat right, get outside. But what about our friendships and romances? How can we make them the best they can be? 

Communication that Connects

Why waste time with crossed signals? Words are friendship magic when you know how to wield them.

Dating, Marriage, Parenting

We cover these topics, too.

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The Ten Relational Needs: Acceptance, Affection, Appreciation, Approval, Attention, Comfort, Encouragement, Respect, Security (safety/peace), Support.

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